Hi Amy!Yes, I am at the same stage as you although I do already have one daugher. I am due for my first botox injection next week and have decided to wait and see how I react to that. I am hoping it will work. (The botox that is!)
We have also decided that when we do try for another baby I will stop the botox. Although most of the literature I have read points to no conculsive evidance regarding abnormalities and botox, I personally feel its just not worth taking any risk. I feel that although life with SD is difficult, it is far better than risking your baby's life.
Pregnancy and breat feeding isnt forever (although sometime it might feel that way) so I feel for that 9 months plus feeding its just not worth any risk of Botox. Of course this is just my opinion.
Hope all goes well. Its a difficult decision.
Louise.