Hi Janey,I re-read all your previous BB posts and caught a few items from this one, regarding your mother's condition. Las Vegas, 81, won't post, Wang, Berke, etc.
Although geography seems to be a concern, the most important element of your postings is that you are a very supportive daughter. You are your mother's prime advocate, and you're doing a good job on her behalf.
For those of us who advocate for voice patients, you are doing exactly the right thing. When people can't talk or represent themselves, they need somebody to speak up for them, as you are doing. We, on this BB, would all be so lucky to have someone like you advocate for us.
Welcome to the SD-BB.
Dr. Wang has treated me and Dr. Berke is well-known in the SD community. Many of us in this forum have met him and been treated by him. He speaks at patient symposiums and medical conventions, on behalf of voice procedures.
You didn't mention who mom's doc was (the doc who put the laryngoscope down her nose), but the issue of isolation and depression, in not being able to speak (no matter what exact permutation we have or how old we are) is life-affecting for anyone.
If there is any way you can get your mom to an oto or an SLP who specializes in geriatric (sp?) vocal conditions, it might help. If the doc she saw says she doesn't have SD, she could easily have Bowed Vocal Folds or a paralyzed cord? Both of those conditions would result in "open cords" (glottal gap), and the situation/symptoms you have described.
SD is the most rare and the worse of vocal disorders, so if she doesn't have SD --- that's good for her.
We're here to help, on this BB. Please write me off the BB for additional information. Bowed vocal cords/folds (they lose elasticity as we age, and then can't come together) are common in the elderly.
Janey --- Good Luck. Your mom is very fortunate to have you as her personal advocate. We should all be so fortunate to have someone as caring as you speaking for us, when we can't represent ourselves. Please keep us posted on your mom's condition.
--Lynne (AD-SD; RLN surgery; PVFM; Northern California)