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Posted by: Susan D. ®
12/05/2004, 22:40:29


Here's a new one to add to the list of humuliations we all sooner or later encounter in living with S.D. On Sat. night, my husband and I went out to dinner to celebrate our 29th wedding anniversary. I had one drink at 8:00 when we arrived at the restaurant while we waited an hour for our table (with reservations!). I drank water the rest of the evening. Driving home on a long stretch of dark road, I was stopped by a cop for "dimming my bright lights a little too slowly". He asked where I was coming from/going to and I told him. He then asked me how many drinks I had & I told him "one at 8:00") (it was now 11:30 p.m.). He made me get out of the car and take the sobriety test! Before I started I told him that I was deaf due to inner ear problems in one ear and as a result, have no sense of balance, and that I had a vocal cord disorder. He put me thru all the paces anyhow--stand on one leg (which I can't do), walk toe to heel, which I couldn't do, receite the alphabet (thank goodness I could pass that one) and then I had to blow into the little meter. When he saw the dismal results, he apologized to me, handed me back my license and said "I'm sorry about this, but when you talked funny, I thought you had been drinking". I got back in the car and teared up (but didn't break out into a full poor-me tear session like I would have earlier in my life)--just one more thing we live with. Happy holidays to all of you. Sue



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Posted by: speechless ®
12/06/2004, 00:53:29


You are right, that is truly one to add to the list of humiliations! On another note, I was in a minor car accident about two months ago. My voice was really bad. When the other driver and I started talking, I noticed how nervous he seemed to be getting. I was "talking" away, and suddenly he says, "Please Miss, don't cry...I take full responsibility!" I looked at him amazed and as he walked back to his car I had to fight the urge to laugh. My voice sounded so bad, he thought I was on the verge of a breakdown!



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Posted by: Samietooo ®
12/08/2004, 07:47:32


So sorry to hear about your experience Sue. Sitting here with tears in my eyes.

Happy and healthy holidays to all!!

Carol
(Florida)




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Posted by: kybutterfly ®
12/12/2004, 20:29:31


Sue I am so sorry about you feeling humilated and can relate. I have MTD and lots of spasms. Whats really been tough for me is having ppl. at work giggle when my voice goes bad, I will never forget some of the looks that I have seen on people's faces. Please dont beacome phobic like I have. It really hurts but I can see why they would laugh so hang in there.



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Posted by: carolyn hutchison ®
12/17/2004, 21:55:45


Hi Sue,

As a police chief and fellow SD'er (ABSD), I'd like to apologize for the officer who put you thru the sobriety tests... Let's hope that he learned something from the experience. Keep your chin up. It's a tough road ahead of all of us, but we can do it.

Take care,

Carolyn Hutchison
Carrboro, NC




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Posted by: Sal ®
12/18/2004, 06:33:01


Sue,

So sorry to hear about your experience. I'm glad you didn't let it completely devastate you and that he did at least apologize in the end. Your right, we all have our stories of humiliation. One time I was getting a smoothie at the ice cream stand in a mall, and the woman said "I'm not going to give it to you until you speak up, haha". Now I use it as an example to give people when they say wonder how this disorder that can seem invisible at times, really affects people. Keep your chin up and happy anniversary!

Sal




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Posted by: Renee ®
12/25/2004, 00:01:39


I would just like to say one thing--People being assholes!!! I have SO many examples of people behaving in this manner. People just have a really hard time with weird sounding voices...


Renee ADSD/ Austin, TEXAS




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Posted by: Gary Lea ®
01/02/2005, 20:01:39


I am sure we all have had such experiences. Just before I was diagnosed in 1992 I thought that "some time off" might help my failing voice (I am a psychologist). Living in southern BC close to the border I decided to travel to the Oregon Coast, a very beautiful part of the world. Getting through US Customs, however, proved a real challenge. The customs lady first asked me what I do for a living, then if I had any medication, and then if I had any "drugs". (I didn't, in case you're wondering). I was then directed to the customs building where I was asked by a 6'4" guy with no neck and a brushcut, probably a former Marine or linebacker, for my car keys. Being the congenial guy I am I consented - he gave no cause for asking for my keys. Moments later two guys came out in coveralls with a creeper, mirrors and tools and proceded to literally pull my small sports car apart. Can you really hide anything in a 280ZX? After 20 minutes it appeared to me that the mechanics were finished, and I stood up to leave the building. That was a big no-no; Mr. NoNeck asked me where I thought I was going, and that I would do well to stay put until the mechanics were done (not exactly how he put it but it was along those lines). They finished about 5 minutes later (an obvious miscalculation on my part) and Mr. NonNeck announced that I was free to leave - again with no explanation as to why I had been detained. I really felt like lodging a complaint but didn't want to incur Mr. NoNeck's wrath and I didn't have the voice to carry it off anyway so left 30 minutes for the worse. Fortunately the Oregon coast was extraordinary as always so the trip wasn't a total loss; regrettably it didn't do anything for my voice and I was formally diagnosed with SD/AD 3 months later. I never got an explanation for my detention at the border but I am quite sure that my voice difficulties played a pivotal role.

Gary




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